The glistening beaded ornaments are up ...

Hand beading is a traditional skill in Southern Africa, unique items that are not mass made in a factory across the world is always something to be admired. 

I have shared my hand beaded wire & bead proteas that I have at home. 

I first saw the beaded proteas in a magazine then later visited a market with my late Dad & we chose these together for my home in England. 

Almost 2 decades ago, a friend was selling some of the hand beaded ornaments from Natal in her shop in Shropshire & I bought some. 

My parents added to the collection,  & each time we have been back, we have bought some additional ones. They are a link to my heritage. 

This past week, the little tree that usually goes in the conservatory was repurposed on the dining room sideboard. 

It looks right with the small beaded ornaments & I pass it several times a day so enjoy looking at it. 

I  put the beaded ornaments on there, along side the random deer who come out over the festive season. 

The  deer are mainly supermarket ones - Sainsbury's - some years back & they are really sweet. 

The little tree with its beaded ornaments is unique; it is personal & it is very much enjoyed. 

I hope your festive planning is going well too. Thank you for stopping by & spending time here. 

Dee 🕯️🎄🎶🔔

The second Sunday of Advent brings LOVE

 It is a grounding time to light the Advent candles at home on a Sunday & to just have time to pause amidst the rush of December. Everyone you speak to has lists & things to do so a calm time is reflective. 

The second candle is for LOVE - love for life, for people, kindness to strangers, just a softer way of life.

LOVE can take many forms; the friends who text you a link to a post they know you will enjoy,  a cup of tea when you need it, a note to say 'thought of you', the shopkeeper asking how you are, the coffee shop knowing what you like, a morning text before you all go on your busy ways ... 

The second candle of LOVE joins the first candle of HOPE as they burn together for a while.

Spread ripples of love & kindness, 

Dee ⛪️🕯️🎶🔔

The Advent candles need a bobeche ...

 I love candles at home, especially with meals for friends etc when we chat late in to the night & the candles burn low & no one wants to move. 

However, so many candles seem to drip wax that runs down the candlestick & on to the tablecloth where it almost impossible to remove. 

Some of my candle holders have glass wax catchers / bobeche that gets around this problem but many do not. The Advent ring, although brass, is prone to having the candles drip so I had a thought to get around this issue. 

The idea comes from my teaching time when students would make Christingles & carry them to a local church for the service. They were lit when they got to church & to stop the hot wax dripping on them, a paper round was used to catch the wax. 

While out dropping off surplus Christmas things at local charity shops (yes, I am still on a mission to reduce my Christmas stash) I spied some sheet music & had an inspiring thought. It would be easy & pretty to make paper wax catchers from sheet music. 

I duly purchased 3 lots at 20p each; a perfect find. 

I used a glass to draw a circle for each one - 4 for the Advent wreath & one for the centre candle. 

After cutting out the circles, I made 6-8 small snips to the centre large enough for the candle to go through. 

I did a gold border on each circle with a sharpie pen before easing it over the candles so it rests on the candle holder. 

They look pretty as well as being functional & that is a great way to protect the table cloths from drips. 

I hope this inspires you to do something similar - it is a quick but satisfying make that only took a few minutes. You could use pretty Christmas cards to do this too. 

Thank you for stopping by at this busy time, it is always appreciated. 

Dee 🕯️📖🎵🎶

Looking more festive …

 

 

A message on the local ‘kindness’ group last week spurred me into action: Decorations needed for a local care home looking after dementia residents. 

I have had it on my mind to declutter sort through the accumulation of years of Christmas decorations & this was the nudge I needed ahead of doing my own tree. 

I have kept the last few years ones in the garage but in previous years the packed boxes went in the loft. Out of sight but also not easy to access in midwinter when it is really cold up there. When the girls were at uni or working away, it was easier to grab new decorations rather than haul boxes down the ladder from the loft so the things that went up didn’t always come down. 

However, the wanted / needed request spurred us to bring down the loft decorations. We put them in the hallway & I checked in what was needed. ‘Wreaths, garlands, decorations, anything’ was the reply & so I checked through the containers, taking out just a few bits, then they were collected for the care home. 

What a relief to have sorted it out & so relieved that they were going to a good home. 

The conservatory sideboard was changed as the family were stopping by & Advent Sunday was upon us. Old favourites that will be well used over the festive season, many of them gifts over the years & they are on hand to enjoy a mince pie or treat on a nice plate without digging around for them. The sideboard works well for us at home. 

A really wet day today nudged me to bring the tree in from the garage & do the living room tree. I decided that white, rose & old gold decoration combination will prevail again. 

I tested the lights (we have all had the failed light experience) wound them on then set to decorate while catching up on recorded programmes. 

Some additional ones had come down with the loft stash like the ‘peace, joy, Noel’ ones & some delicate angels. The tree nestles in the corner next to the clocks & is a joy in the dark nights.

Our inglenook fireplace gets a large garland that only just stretches between the 2 hooks. 

It had graced the smaller fireplace at previous house where it draped over it but it is fortunately just right here. 

Lights adjusted & plugged in, it’s twinkly lights matching that of the tree. 

Baking is part of my Christmas preparations. 

 I like to put out some of the cookie cutters on the windowsill, alongside the glass candleholders; the plug in lights that stay up all year round are especially pretty in the winter when the candle holders come from various corners of the house to rest on the window sill. 

It is very handy to have candles readily available for when they are needed or when you want to  have one burning while you cook. 

I love passing on the joy of making something imperfect for the festive season. 

I am not yet sure what the festive baking will be - I looked at the long list of ingredients on some of the mince pies & they put me off. 

I know commercial baking is different but I prefer something without all the additives. 

I think mince pies will be on my baking list - any good suggestions are welcome. 

Still things to do about the house ahead of the festive season but I enjoy preparing the space, as my parents did for us growing up. 

Do you also like to take your time with festive preparations so you can enjoy them & the cosy feel at home? 

With various meet ups with friends at local pubs & coffee shops ahead of Christmas, I feel more organised with the major things done. 

What is your strategy for the festive season? When do you get started? Thank you for stopping by, it is always appreciated, 

Dee 🎄⛪️🕯️

The first Sunday of Advent slips in quietly as HOPE

Some things arrive quietly, almost unnoticed but not insignificant.  Advent is one such thing, a reminder that we have but 4 Sundays to Christmas.

For many, the frenetic season of excess is in full swing but Advent brings a reminder to just pause, take stock & remind yourself that commercialism can be sidestepped, it is optional. 

I struggle with the excesses of the season, the idea that more is more in everything from gifts to food. 

I am from a generation where life was simpler in Africa; slower, no 24 hour shops or round the clock tv.  That is how I like the season - authentic, simpler but still meaningful. 

I grew up attending Sunday school & church, singing in the choir. I know all the words & the rituals that ground me & consider myself spiritual. It is very personal, I find my peace in quiet places & in still Abbey ruins locally. 

However, I do return to carols & observing rituals at Christmas, it anchors one in the collective observances. 

My Mothers paternal grandfather was German / Prussian & she instinctively observed some of the traditions from her Father who still carried some of the Teutonic ways of his ancestors. 

My Mother used to travel across Johannesburg to a specialist deli shop to purchase Advent calendars for my daughters long before they were mainstream. 

These were imported but she loved this ritual of giving them to the girls & enjoying their pleasure in opening the windows that all had religious symbols on them. 

Years ago, I bought fabric 'East of India' ones that I filled with small chocolates I purchased for the daughters; the little pockets means you have to be mindful of what will fit in. It was always the start of the season for me, the calendars filled & delivered to university residences & homes where the daughters were.

These fabric calendars were filled & passed to the grandchildren this weekend ahead of Advent. 

It is more personal selecting chocolates to fill each year than just a shop bought one. 

Today, I added greenery to my Advent ring from our garden, a few sprigs of holly from our little bush, some ivy & the starlike flower stems from the fatsia japonica. 

The first of the 4 candles will be lit as the sun fades today. Each week it will join the next until they all burn on the last Sunday. I have opted for creamy white & gold candles this year.

                     The first candle is for HOPE 

Today, pause & take stock of how you want the festive season to be & don't forget to add in some thankfulness too. 

Thank you for stopping by, it is always appreciated 

Dee 🕯️🎄✝️⛪️