The first Sunday of Advent slips in quietly as HOPE

Some things arrive quietly, almost unnoticed but not insignificant.  Advent is one such thing, a reminder that we have but 4 Sundays to Christmas.

For many, the frenetic season of excess is in full swing but Advent brings a reminder to just pause, take stock & remind yourself that commercialism can be sidestepped, it is optional. 

I struggle with the excesses of the season, the idea that more is more in everything from gifts to food. 

I am from a generation where life was simpler in Africa; slower, no 24 hour shops or round the clock tv.  That is how I like the season - authentic, simpler but still meaningful. 

I grew up attending Sunday school & church, singing in the choir. I know all the words & the rituals that ground me & consider myself spiritual. It is very personal, I find my peace in quiet places & in still Abbey ruins locally. 

However, I do return to carols & observing rituals at Christmas, it anchors one in the collective observances. 

My Mothers paternal grandfather was German / Prussian & she instinctively observed some of the traditions from her Father who still carried some of the Teutonic ways of his ancestors. 

My Mother used to travel across Johannesburg to a specialist deli shop to purchase Advent calendars for my daughters long before they were mainstream. 

These were imported but she loved this ritual of giving them to the girls & enjoying their pleasure in opening the windows that all had religious symbols on them. 

Years ago, I bought fabric 'East of India' ones that I filled with small chocolates I purchased for the daughters; the little pockets means you have to be mindful of what will fit in. It was always the start of the season for me, the calendars filled & delivered to university residences & homes where the daughters were.

These fabric calendars were filled & passed to the grandchildren this weekend ahead of Advent. 

It is more personal selecting chocolates to fill each year than just a shop bought one. 

Today, I added greenery to my Advent ring from our garden, a few sprigs of holly from our little bush, some ivy & the starlike flower stems from the fatsia japonica. 

The first of the 4 candles will be lit as the sun fades today. Each week it will join the next until they all burn on the last Sunday. I have opted for creamy white & gold candles this year.

                     The first candle is for HOPE 

Today, pause & take stock of how you want the festive season to be & don't forget to add in some thankfulness too. 

Thank you for stopping by, it is always appreciated 

Dee 🕯️🎄✝️⛪️

The first Sunday of Advent

 I observe the countdown to Advent & the 4 Sundays that lead up to Christmas. 

Last year Ms M & I were enjoying the delights of the Winter Christmas markets in Munich, Salzburg & Innsbruck - something we can only dream of this year. 

We loved seeing the beautiful Advent Candle Wreaths seen all about that region - it is traditional to mark it with 4 candles.  I have some of the beautiful ones on this post from last year .... 

My 4 candle stick holder has been dusted down & filled with candles & it is ready to be lit in the 4 weeks up to Christmas. I love these traditional images I used on a previous post. 

I decorated the tray under my Advent candle holder with holly & ivy, the traditional Christmas combination. 

Today I found some little easy peel oranges in the fridge that were less juicy than I like so I decided to turn them in to pomander / Christingles (meaning Christ light) 

When I taught in mainstream education, we used to make Christingles in class then walk our classes to the local church for the Christingle service. 

The tradition originated in Germany in 1747 when Bishop Johannes de Watteville used an orange with a candle attached to it to remind children of the light Jesus brought in to the world during Advent. 

The orange represents the world 

The candle is for Jesus as the light of the world

The red ribbon reminds us of the blood of Christ

The 4 cocktail sticks are for the 4 seasons or 4 corners of the world

The dried fruit represents the gifts from God

The candle in the centre is lit & children carry them in to the church at a special Christingle service. It has only been adopted in England since 1968. 

I adapted mine with cloves studded in & the red ribbon pinned to a candle placed between the oranges. 

I love making spicy pomanders for the house as they fill the air with a delicate fragrance. 

However you observe the run up to Christmas, it is a good time to just p a u s e and be thankful. I will light the first of my 4 Advent candles on Sunday then every night from 1-24th December, I light an Advent candle with numbers on (something my late Mother used to do) and I love watching the candle flicker each night while we eat - it is a reminder to just enjoy the time without being caught up in the commercialism that takes over ... 

Have a blessed Advent Sunday. Thank you for your company, each & every visit & comment is much appreciated, 

Dee ~💕~